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How can you care for your child who has a short stature?
- Help your child learn how to make and keep friends.
- Find your child's strengths, and work to build on them.
- Encourage your child to talk about concerns and problems making friends.
- Teach your child how to introduce himself or herself, start conversations, and politely join in play.
- Show your child how to have healthy friendships by being a good friend to others.
- Encourage your child to try new things. For example, many children who are short are afraid to play sports, but there are many sports that your child may enjoy.
- Assure your child that you accept him or her, even when others may not. A child's self-esteem wavers, sometimes from moment to moment. Help your child understand that life has ups and downs.
- Be positive. Children usually value an adult's interest and praise.
- Treat your child with respect. Ask his or her views, consider them, and give meaningful feedback. A child's self-esteem grows when he or she is respected.
- Encourage communication. Ask open-ended questions, and make statements such as, "Tell me more about the math test" or "It sounds like it was a busy day." Listen to what your child says.
Short stature in children: When to call
Watch closely for changes in your child's health, and be sure to contact your doctor if:
- Your child expresses a lack of self-worth.
- Your child shows a lack of interest in usual activities, withdraws, and seems sad.
- Your child avoids school or activities.
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