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How can you care for yourself if you have a codependent relationship?
- Try to learn all you can about what healthy relationships look like. This can help you understand where you may need support to make changes.
- Do not blame yourself for the person's condition.
- Find a counselor you like and trust. Talk openly and honestly about your problems. Try to make any changes your counselor suggests.
- Go to all counseling sessions. It is a good idea not to skip any, even if you are feeling better.
- Talk to friends and family for emotional support.
- It may help to make a plan with the person's friends or family about how to take care of the person when their symptoms are severe.
- Try not to focus attention only on the person who has the substance use disorder.
- Get enough rest. When you are too tired, it can be hard to cope with even small problems.
- Eat a variety of healthy foods. These include fruits, vegetables, whole grains, low-fat dairy, and lean proteins.
- Get at least 30 minutes of exercise on most days of the week. For some people, walking is a good choice. You also may want to do other activities. These include running, swimming, cycling, or playing tennis or team sports. Exercise can help you relieve stress and feel better.
- Stay active. Try to do the things you usually enjoy, even if you do not feel like doing them.
- Join a support group for people who are in codependent relationships. Talking with other people who are going through the same things can help.
Codependency: When to call
Watch closely for changes in your health, and be sure to contact your doctor if:
- You cannot concentrate or are easily confused.
- You have trouble taking care of yourself.
- You cannot go to your counseling sessions.
- You feel sad or depressed.
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